Before you come

Stuff you're probably wondering.

Everything people ask us before their first session. If yours isn't here, message us and we'll answer straight.

Coming to a session

Does it cost anything?

No. Not the sessions, not the gear, not the trips, not the food. There's no membership and nothing to cancel. If someone tells you otherwise, that isn't us.

Do I need to be in shape already?

No. Everything gets scaled to whoever showed up that day. Plenty of people come having never trained before, and nobody in the room cares how much you can lift.

What if I don't know anyone there?

That's most people on their first day. Someone is assigned to you before you arrive, so you're not standing at the edge trying to figure out where to put yourself.

Can I bring a friend?

Yes, always. Bring your brother, your cousin, whoever. Just tell us how many of you are coming so there's enough food.

What do I wear and bring?

Whatever you can move in and a water bottle. If you don't have shoes that work for it, say so when you sign up and we'll sort it out before you get there.

Will I have to talk about my feelings?

No. You can train, eat, and leave without saying much at all. Some guys talk after a few months, some never do, and both are fine.

Do my parents have to be involved?

If you're under 18 we need a parent or guardian to sign a waiver, which is a safety thing and standard everywhere. Past that, they don't need to come with you.

What if I miss a week?

Then you come the next week. There's no strike system, no attendance policy, and nobody is going to make you feel bad about it.

Who are the adults?

Coaches and mentors who are background checked and trained before they work with anyone. If an adult here ever makes you uncomfortable, tell any of us and we'll act on it.

What if I'm dealing with something bigger than this?

Come anyway, and tell a coach as much or as little as you want. We're not a treatment program, but we know the people in Seattle who are, and we'll help you get to them.

Parents & supporters

Is a donation tax-deductible?

We're a Washington nonprofit working toward formal tax-exempt status. We'll update donors as soon as that's confirmed, and you get a receipt for every gift either way.

Where does the money go?

Into gear, league fees, mentor training, outdoor trips, and food. See what we track.

How do I mentor or volunteer?

Start on the contact page. Mentors go through a background check and training before being matched with anyone.

Nobody trains alone

Just ask us directly.

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